What should we teach children who are 3 and 4 years old about sex?
If you said "nothing" in response to that question, that was the right answer. Exposing very young children to graphic material about human sexuality at a very early age can be extremely detrimental, but that is precisely what Planned Parenthood wants to do. And I am not just talking about run-of-the mill sexual education. Planned Parenthood has just released new guidelines for educating preschoolers that include entire sections about transgenderism and masturbation. And remember, U.S. taxpayers are paying for all of this, because Planned Parenthood receives about $500 million from the U.S. government every year. The Republicans have control of the White House, the Senate and the House of Representatives, and so there is absolutely no excuse for not defunding Planned Parenthood as soon as possible.
When I first learned about these new guidelines, I was absolutely stunned. Little children who are 3 and 4 years old are just learning to put sentences together, and yet Planned Parenthood wants them to start learning about sexuality and gender roles at that age? The following comes from Matt Miller:
New guidelines have been issued on the Planned Parenthood website containing detailed methods for talking to preschoolers about gender roles, sexuality, masturbation, transgenderism and even ways of determining whether your child is trans or not.
In these new guidelines, there is even a section for parents that are wondering if their little preschooler is transgender. According to Planned Parenthood, parents of a potentially "transgender preschooler" should let them "wear what they want, have the haircut they want and even use a name that reflects their gender":
If you think your child might be transgender but don't know what to do, talking with a counselor or therapist who's familiar and supportive of LGBTQ identities is a good idea. Talking with other families with trans or gender nonconforming kids can be helpful, too—for both you and your child. There are community groups like PFLAG which may be in your area, and there are also lots of parenting groups online.
It's also a good idea to talk to your child directly about their gender if you think they might be transgender or gender expansive. Ask them if they're a boy or a girl, and how they know that to be true. If they are transgender, giving them the power to wear what they want, have the haircut they want and even use a name that reflects their gender are all going to be really important for them to feel safe, especially once they start going to school. For help talking to your child about this stuff, Gender Spectrum is a good place to start.